It's been a particularly dry, hot and windy summer here in the Sandhills. My beautiful green, lush pastures are mostly brown and dried. There have been prairie fires, mostly started by dry lightening, all around us. Folks are getting scared. Scared of more fires. Scared of a tough winter. Scared of not having enough range to get through the summer. Scared we'll have sick calves. Scared....scared....scared.
I have to admit, I've had quite a few moments when I've been pretty scared, too. I have felt great defeat. I have stopped out in the pastures, got down on my knees and wept.....and prayed....prayed for rain, prayed for strength, prayed for wisdom to know how to regroup and handle something I've never had to tackle before. I've admitted to God how scared I've been.
We've helped neighbors fight big prairie fires and we've seen what our neighbors to the north, up near the Valentine area are experiencing. We look to the skies and pray for rain and it seems like all we receive in return is a few sprinkles and more dry lightening strikes. The hot days and the dry hot winds make it easy to forget the days of winter.
Truth is, we are spoiled. Moisture has been so plentiful the last few years that we have forgotten what dry conditions are like. We have to remind ourselves that generations before us have experienced these things too......and most of all, we have to remind ourselves "this too shall pass."
I have been given comfort in knowing that I'm doing what the Good Lord put me on this earth to do. He wouldn't have put me back here in the Sandhills so long ago and put so many things in my favor if that weren't so. And so I live with the faith that He will give me what I need when I need it, to get me through this rough time. And while I have most definitely had moments when I have questioned why God would do this to us, when we are doing our best to do His will, I have to remind myself again of the truths I know from His word and not from what I see. Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." I remind myself of this, sometimes hourly.....Philippians 4:20 "And my God will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus." Proverbs 3:5,6 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight." Psalms 55:22 "Cast your cares on the Lord and He will sustain you; He will never let the righteous fall." And even if I DO fall, He is there to pick me up and give me something better....There are several others, but these are the main ones I try to hold on to.
Because I have faith in my God, I know, without a doubt we will overcome this rough time. He is bigger than a drought. He is bigger than a prairie fire. He is bigger than any problem I can face. And He has always brought me through tough times in better shape than before. So I know He will again.
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
Trust
When we start working with a young horse, he doesn't always trust us at first. From the day he is dropped on the ground or he comes to your place, you are working on gaining his trust. We do that by never putting that horse in a situation where he gets hurt. He can be scared of something, he can question something and that's ok. It's ok to be scared. It's ok to question. We just have to show them that whatever that scary thing is, is really just something that looks scary but really isn't.
The first time I took my little Maggie mare through a deep puddle, she was scared. It didn't look like a good deal to her. The ground didn't feel right, I suppose. She tried to go to the right and then the left. She tried to go every direction she could to keep from going through that water. She was looking for the easy way out. But I just kept bringing her back to that place and encouraging her to go forward...I waited for her to find the right way. When she finally made a "try" in the right direction, I let her sit. I petted her and let her relax. I showed her that was the easy place. Then I asked her for a little more. Eventually, she got the idea that it would be ok and she walked, hesitantly, through the puddle. Now when I ask her to go through a puddle or cross water, she still doesn't just go blundering through it. She puts her head down, has a sniff and a look before she crosses...like any smart horse would.
Now the reason I'm telling you this is because I have been thinking a lot lately about lessons in trust that the Good Lord gives us. When we are new Christians, we are a lot like Maggie was when I was teaching her to cross that water. God puts us in situations to teach us trust. And it looks scary to us. We question it. The "ground doesn't feel right to us", so to speak. We go left and we go right. And He does just like I did with Maggie. He just keeps nudging us back to the middle where we are supposed to go. He's patient with us. And when we finally learn that we can cross that water and it will be ok, well, we gained a little trust. But probably next time, we'll still put our head down and have a look before we cross the water again.....like any smart horse would.
The thing is, we'd all like to have God just wave his hand and do a miracle all the time. Sometimes He does that. But sometimes, He puts us in situations that are tough, that we don't like one bit. I've put Maggie in those places too. And what happened when the day was over? If I did things right, she trusted me more. Why? Because everything turned out ok. And see, that's how God does with us. He puts us in those places we don't like because at the end of the day, we'll learn that we can trust Him more. What would we gain if He just waved His hand all the time and did a miracle? It's a much better learning experience for us if we have to go through something with Him, just like Maggie has had to with me. She knows she can trust me now. And because of all the "tests" the Good Lord has put me through, I've learned that I can trust Him. He will ALWAYS bring me through. He will always take care of me and make me better if I just trust Him. It's not always easy, mind you. I still try to go left and right sometimes. I still look for the easy way......and it is ALWAYS with Him. But He's patient with me. He waits on me. And I'm sure grateful that He does.
The first time I took my little Maggie mare through a deep puddle, she was scared. It didn't look like a good deal to her. The ground didn't feel right, I suppose. She tried to go to the right and then the left. She tried to go every direction she could to keep from going through that water. She was looking for the easy way out. But I just kept bringing her back to that place and encouraging her to go forward...I waited for her to find the right way. When she finally made a "try" in the right direction, I let her sit. I petted her and let her relax. I showed her that was the easy place. Then I asked her for a little more. Eventually, she got the idea that it would be ok and she walked, hesitantly, through the puddle. Now when I ask her to go through a puddle or cross water, she still doesn't just go blundering through it. She puts her head down, has a sniff and a look before she crosses...like any smart horse would.
Now the reason I'm telling you this is because I have been thinking a lot lately about lessons in trust that the Good Lord gives us. When we are new Christians, we are a lot like Maggie was when I was teaching her to cross that water. God puts us in situations to teach us trust. And it looks scary to us. We question it. The "ground doesn't feel right to us", so to speak. We go left and we go right. And He does just like I did with Maggie. He just keeps nudging us back to the middle where we are supposed to go. He's patient with us. And when we finally learn that we can cross that water and it will be ok, well, we gained a little trust. But probably next time, we'll still put our head down and have a look before we cross the water again.....like any smart horse would.
The thing is, we'd all like to have God just wave his hand and do a miracle all the time. Sometimes He does that. But sometimes, He puts us in situations that are tough, that we don't like one bit. I've put Maggie in those places too. And what happened when the day was over? If I did things right, she trusted me more. Why? Because everything turned out ok. And see, that's how God does with us. He puts us in those places we don't like because at the end of the day, we'll learn that we can trust Him more. What would we gain if He just waved His hand all the time and did a miracle? It's a much better learning experience for us if we have to go through something with Him, just like Maggie has had to with me. She knows she can trust me now. And because of all the "tests" the Good Lord has put me through, I've learned that I can trust Him. He will ALWAYS bring me through. He will always take care of me and make me better if I just trust Him. It's not always easy, mind you. I still try to go left and right sometimes. I still look for the easy way......and it is ALWAYS with Him. But He's patient with me. He waits on me. And I'm sure grateful that He does.
Saturday, May 26, 2012
It Has Been a Short Year
My how the time flies! Seems like just yesterday we were putting cows out to winter pasture and now here it is almost summer. We have been busy, but it has been an awfully good spring.
Weaning went so well and with so few sick calves, I guess that's why it seemed to go so fast. If you have lot's of trouble and bad weather, the hours pass like days, but when things go well, time passes quickly.
Winter brought us one big snow. We had 18 inches of light snow by the time that day was over. It seemed to be pretty much localized to our little part of the county. Further north or west, there were just a few inches of snow. Thankfully, the wind didn't blow too badly during the storm so the drifts weren't too bad. We had purchased a 4 wheel drive tractor a year ago and a big loader for it this year. That made things MUCH easier to get around so I didn't have to sit around stewing about the cows not getting fed. Several bunches were "snowed under", meaning they got in a hole and the snow got so deep around them they didn't think they could get out. For one bunch, Matt and I had to make a trail on foot for them to follow us out because it was on a side hill that would have been too dangerous to take the tractor. But within a day or two, the temperatures warmed up and the snow started melting. It left us with some good moisture for spring grass.
Calving started off on the wrong foot. The first ten days of calving out heifers, I pulled at least one everyday. The upside to that was the purchase of that great maternity pen I talked about. And then, after those ten days, I don't think I pulled or lost another calf. Out in the cows, there was less of the crazy things that can go wrong, the weather was VERY cooperative making things go well.
We had an unusually warm spring with nice rains instead of snow. The grass started to come on much earlier than usual, which allowed us to stop feeding hay to the cows much earlier than usual....saving us time and money! This also helped the cows pick up earlier than usual and made them start cycling earlier. All good things.
Branding day sort of snuck up on me, on account of how well things had been going. It just seemed like time went by so quickly that it didn't seem like it should be time to brand the calves. But brand them we did and I'd have to say we had as good of a crew to help as we have ever had.
There was a little glitch in my smooth spring when we started trying to get our water ready in our South summer pastures. A tornado had gone through several months before and I had not gotten down there to really look things over as soon as I should have. One windmill tower and motor was damaged extensively and required quite a lot of repair. A new well had to be put in another pasture and several tanks had to be set. (the new well and tanks weren't due to the tornado, just things that had been put off too long and couldn't be put off any longer).......and then we didn't get any wind to fill the tanks after we got everything fixed!!
Yesterday, we finally got the first bunch of pairs South. Everything traveled well and we had the perfect cool weather, albeit a bit damp for my taste, for cows and calves to travel. This morning, I'll go see if everything stayed where we put them and fix anything that didn't. Then it will be off to get another bunch ready to go the first of the week.
It won't be more than a couple of weeks and we'll be cutting our alfalfa for the first time. It will be much earlier than usual too. If we don't get hail or an early frost, we might get an extra cutting from it, which will be nice if we happen to have a bad winter next year.
Next year?? How is it that I'm already thinking of that?
Weaning went so well and with so few sick calves, I guess that's why it seemed to go so fast. If you have lot's of trouble and bad weather, the hours pass like days, but when things go well, time passes quickly.
Winter brought us one big snow. We had 18 inches of light snow by the time that day was over. It seemed to be pretty much localized to our little part of the county. Further north or west, there were just a few inches of snow. Thankfully, the wind didn't blow too badly during the storm so the drifts weren't too bad. We had purchased a 4 wheel drive tractor a year ago and a big loader for it this year. That made things MUCH easier to get around so I didn't have to sit around stewing about the cows not getting fed. Several bunches were "snowed under", meaning they got in a hole and the snow got so deep around them they didn't think they could get out. For one bunch, Matt and I had to make a trail on foot for them to follow us out because it was on a side hill that would have been too dangerous to take the tractor. But within a day or two, the temperatures warmed up and the snow started melting. It left us with some good moisture for spring grass.
Calving started off on the wrong foot. The first ten days of calving out heifers, I pulled at least one everyday. The upside to that was the purchase of that great maternity pen I talked about. And then, after those ten days, I don't think I pulled or lost another calf. Out in the cows, there was less of the crazy things that can go wrong, the weather was VERY cooperative making things go well.
We had an unusually warm spring with nice rains instead of snow. The grass started to come on much earlier than usual, which allowed us to stop feeding hay to the cows much earlier than usual....saving us time and money! This also helped the cows pick up earlier than usual and made them start cycling earlier. All good things.
Branding day sort of snuck up on me, on account of how well things had been going. It just seemed like time went by so quickly that it didn't seem like it should be time to brand the calves. But brand them we did and I'd have to say we had as good of a crew to help as we have ever had.
There was a little glitch in my smooth spring when we started trying to get our water ready in our South summer pastures. A tornado had gone through several months before and I had not gotten down there to really look things over as soon as I should have. One windmill tower and motor was damaged extensively and required quite a lot of repair. A new well had to be put in another pasture and several tanks had to be set. (the new well and tanks weren't due to the tornado, just things that had been put off too long and couldn't be put off any longer).......and then we didn't get any wind to fill the tanks after we got everything fixed!!
Yesterday, we finally got the first bunch of pairs South. Everything traveled well and we had the perfect cool weather, albeit a bit damp for my taste, for cows and calves to travel. This morning, I'll go see if everything stayed where we put them and fix anything that didn't. Then it will be off to get another bunch ready to go the first of the week.
It won't be more than a couple of weeks and we'll be cutting our alfalfa for the first time. It will be much earlier than usual too. If we don't get hail or an early frost, we might get an extra cutting from it, which will be nice if we happen to have a bad winter next year.
Next year?? How is it that I'm already thinking of that?
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
Geometry
Back in school, I was pretty good at math related subjects...algebra, business classes, those kinds of things were pretty easy for me. But geometry....I just couldn't get the hang of all those angles and triangles and all that stuff.
So it's pretty amazing to me how much I use angles in my day to day life. You see, herding or cutting or sorting a cow requires the use of angles. The older I get and the more I do it, the more I realize this to be true. Even if I'm on a young horse that doesn't really know yet how to do the cutting itself, if I get the right angle on a cow, I can do what I need to with her.
Using the correct angle becomes really important if you are using a 4 wheeler to sort a cow. You can't turn one of those things around very short at all. (well you can, but you have to turn the handlebars, gun the motor and spin the back end around. It's fun but isn't real productive if you are trying to be careful with a less than cooperative critter) It doesn't take a cow long to figure out she can out maneuver you when she doesn't want to cooperate. So I have to use my noggin a little and outsmart her with angles.
Case in point, yesterday morning when I was riding through one of the north bunches, a cow had gotten herself on the wrong side of the fence and had her calf. There wasn't a gate close by, so I put the fence down and tied it and thought I would just push her back over. Nope. She wasn't having it. Her calf was maybe four hours old and he was plenty cooperative. Momma, not so much. She was pretty sure she ought to whip me and every time I got very close to her, she kept on coming toward me. In a pretty serious mode. A cow can get a look in her eyes that tells you she means business. And trust me, this girl had it. When they do that, " shake their head and blow snot thing", while they're coming toward you in a hurry, it makes me nervous. I was wishin' for a horse about then.....a cow looks you right in the eye when you are on a 4 wheeler. And when she's acting like she wants to whip you.....that's not a good feeling. At. All. Of course, it isn't a very good feeling when a cow hits your horse either. But that's a story for another day.
So I need to not only use some creativity and quite a bit of cow sense here, I need to keep the correct angle on her. An angle so she doesn't escape or think she can, that will keep her moving in the direction I want her to go, without antagonizing her so she crawls over the 4 wheeler to get me and have me for breakfast. A person thinks you should just be able to get behind a cow and they'll go, but especially right after a cow has calved, most of the normal rules don't apply. I also need to take my time with this cow. Let her have plenty of space, but not too much.
It was slow....we covered an area of maybe 50 yards in about a half hour. Seriously. I think I just outlasted her. She got tired of me and went is what I think finally happened. But I had a lot of time to think about the angles I wanted to use with her......and during a period of time, the angle I wanted to use to retreat. But all's well that ends well. Whether or not it was my cow sense or my stubbornness that got the job done.
So it's pretty amazing to me how much I use angles in my day to day life. You see, herding or cutting or sorting a cow requires the use of angles. The older I get and the more I do it, the more I realize this to be true. Even if I'm on a young horse that doesn't really know yet how to do the cutting itself, if I get the right angle on a cow, I can do what I need to with her.
Using the correct angle becomes really important if you are using a 4 wheeler to sort a cow. You can't turn one of those things around very short at all. (well you can, but you have to turn the handlebars, gun the motor and spin the back end around. It's fun but isn't real productive if you are trying to be careful with a less than cooperative critter) It doesn't take a cow long to figure out she can out maneuver you when she doesn't want to cooperate. So I have to use my noggin a little and outsmart her with angles.
Case in point, yesterday morning when I was riding through one of the north bunches, a cow had gotten herself on the wrong side of the fence and had her calf. There wasn't a gate close by, so I put the fence down and tied it and thought I would just push her back over. Nope. She wasn't having it. Her calf was maybe four hours old and he was plenty cooperative. Momma, not so much. She was pretty sure she ought to whip me and every time I got very close to her, she kept on coming toward me. In a pretty serious mode. A cow can get a look in her eyes that tells you she means business. And trust me, this girl had it. When they do that, " shake their head and blow snot thing", while they're coming toward you in a hurry, it makes me nervous. I was wishin' for a horse about then.....a cow looks you right in the eye when you are on a 4 wheeler. And when she's acting like she wants to whip you.....that's not a good feeling. At. All. Of course, it isn't a very good feeling when a cow hits your horse either. But that's a story for another day.
So I need to not only use some creativity and quite a bit of cow sense here, I need to keep the correct angle on her. An angle so she doesn't escape or think she can, that will keep her moving in the direction I want her to go, without antagonizing her so she crawls over the 4 wheeler to get me and have me for breakfast. A person thinks you should just be able to get behind a cow and they'll go, but especially right after a cow has calved, most of the normal rules don't apply. I also need to take my time with this cow. Let her have plenty of space, but not too much.
It was slow....we covered an area of maybe 50 yards in about a half hour. Seriously. I think I just outlasted her. She got tired of me and went is what I think finally happened. But I had a lot of time to think about the angles I wanted to use with her......and during a period of time, the angle I wanted to use to retreat. But all's well that ends well. Whether or not it was my cow sense or my stubbornness that got the job done.
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Some Days I Don't Much Like My Job
The other day while riding through the heavy cows.....it was beautiful. The sun was shining. The grass just coming on. Barely a breeze. My Maggie mare walking on a loose rein through the cows. The air felt perfect. Perfect. Absolutely perfect. Until.....way off to the north I could see something. Something that didn't look quite right to me. I can't really tell you why it didn't look right. Just one of those things you kinda get so you can tell after a while, I guess. I picked up Maggie to a trot and headed over to check it out.
Long before I reached my destination, I was pretty sure what I was going to find. And unfortunately I was right. It was an older cow that couldn't get up. I don't know why this happens. I do my best to keep it from happening. I cull everything I think might have a tough time during the winter. I write down and make sure I look up anything that's slow or lame. Bless this old gal's heart. She'd made it through the tough part of the year. It's green grass time! But for some reason, it was too much for this old gal. And to top it off, she'd had her calf, but was too weak to take care of it and had probably been too weak to push it out as quick as she should. It was dead. Probably still born due to lack of oxygen.
It broke my heart. I cried all the way home. At the last gate, I sent Matt a text message telling him we needed to put this old gal down and out of her misery. Now you might be wondering, "why doesn't she just nurse her back to health?" Trust me. I've tried it. I've carried water and feed to cows for weeks trying to get them enough strength to get them to get up. It just isn't going to happen. They are finished. What does happen is they get mad. Really mad. So mad if they COULD get up, they would eat you for lunch. That's what bovine do when they are sick or hurt a lot of the time. But really, who could blame them?
Matt met me at Dad's and as soon as I had Maggie taken care of, we drove back over to where the old gal was laying. On the way, we discussed how much this part of the ranching life sucks. How difficult it is to have to put something out of their misery, but how we owe it to them as their caregivers. "It's just part of it, I guess" Matt says,"I don't get any enjoyment out of it and I want to end it for her as quick as I can. But I'm glad I can do it." I'm glad he can too.
Long before I reached my destination, I was pretty sure what I was going to find. And unfortunately I was right. It was an older cow that couldn't get up. I don't know why this happens. I do my best to keep it from happening. I cull everything I think might have a tough time during the winter. I write down and make sure I look up anything that's slow or lame. Bless this old gal's heart. She'd made it through the tough part of the year. It's green grass time! But for some reason, it was too much for this old gal. And to top it off, she'd had her calf, but was too weak to take care of it and had probably been too weak to push it out as quick as she should. It was dead. Probably still born due to lack of oxygen.
It broke my heart. I cried all the way home. At the last gate, I sent Matt a text message telling him we needed to put this old gal down and out of her misery. Now you might be wondering, "why doesn't she just nurse her back to health?" Trust me. I've tried it. I've carried water and feed to cows for weeks trying to get them enough strength to get them to get up. It just isn't going to happen. They are finished. What does happen is they get mad. Really mad. So mad if they COULD get up, they would eat you for lunch. That's what bovine do when they are sick or hurt a lot of the time. But really, who could blame them?
Matt met me at Dad's and as soon as I had Maggie taken care of, we drove back over to where the old gal was laying. On the way, we discussed how much this part of the ranching life sucks. How difficult it is to have to put something out of their misery, but how we owe it to them as their caregivers. "It's just part of it, I guess" Matt says,"I don't get any enjoyment out of it and I want to end it for her as quick as I can. But I'm glad I can do it." I'm glad he can too.
Thursday, March 29, 2012
My First Love
Think back a little with me......who or what was your first love? Was it a special doll or toy? Maybe a very special loved one? A pet, maybe? I have no doubt about my first love......HORSES!
My mom wrote a lot of "firsts" in my baby book for several years after I was born. One of the "firsts" was the "first time I ran away"! I was almost a three year old when Mom wrote that I came up missing one afternoon. Everyone in the family was looking around the yard and in the obvious places behind the house. Finally, someone went to the barn. There I was, perched on the fence, trying to lure my dad's old grey gelding, "Danny Peanuts" over to the fence. It appeared I was going to get on him. My plan was foiled as I was taken back to the house before my mission was accomplished. So I guess you could say I got a fairly early start being in love with horses.
I think I've mentioned before that Dad didn't think I should have a pony or a horse. Sometimes I think he actually hoped I wouldn't ride.....to keep me from getting hurt. So compared to a lot of country kids, I got kind of a late start riding. But I remember being pretty little and begging rides from kids at the fair or any other time someone would let me get on with them!
My first real horse's name was Splash. She was a loud paint mare, half welsh, I think and half quarter horse. Splash was actually purchased for my oldest brother but it wasn't long before he outgrew her. She made her way down through my second brother and then my sister, before finally becoming my horse. We were the same age, I recall. It was about the time she became my horse, that I needed a babysitter and a friend. I think I was seven. I very well remember luring her into the barn with feed and standing on the mangers to saddle her. She was not the most cooperative horse in the world. Splash had seen plenty in her years and while she wouldn't hurt you on purpose, (or very badly anyway) being saddled and ridden by a little kid wasn't really on her "to do" list for the day. I got pretty frustrated but always kept on trying. Some might say I was just more stubborn than she was. I'd probably go along with that.....so would most anyone who knows me very well. But despite the fact that Splash really didn't care much about having me ride her, sometimes I just brushed her or sat and petted her. And talked to her. And she listened as only a horse can. She heard my thoughts and felt my emotions. I needed that at that time.
There have been many, many horses throughout my life. They have been with me through my teenage years and through college. When life was "unstable", horses gave me stability. In college, when I was on the rodeo team, I think one of the things that gave me the most enjoyment, wasn't so much the fact that I was in rodeo, it was that I had a friend from home, right there waiting for me every day. Someone stable who listened and helped to keep me grounded. That has carried on throughout my adult life too. Horses have always been that defining factor for me. I have learned more than I can tell you from horses. Not just about what horses do, but about life.....about sticking with things, about responsibility, about loyalty.
So I have always loved horses. Much of the time, I'm pretty sure I understand horses a lot better than I do people. And even though a horse might not do exactly what I want when I want, that gives me another opportunity to learn something. To think about a new way to show a horse a particular thing. And I think that can carry over to us as humans too.
My mom wrote a lot of "firsts" in my baby book for several years after I was born. One of the "firsts" was the "first time I ran away"! I was almost a three year old when Mom wrote that I came up missing one afternoon. Everyone in the family was looking around the yard and in the obvious places behind the house. Finally, someone went to the barn. There I was, perched on the fence, trying to lure my dad's old grey gelding, "Danny Peanuts" over to the fence. It appeared I was going to get on him. My plan was foiled as I was taken back to the house before my mission was accomplished. So I guess you could say I got a fairly early start being in love with horses.
I think I've mentioned before that Dad didn't think I should have a pony or a horse. Sometimes I think he actually hoped I wouldn't ride.....to keep me from getting hurt. So compared to a lot of country kids, I got kind of a late start riding. But I remember being pretty little and begging rides from kids at the fair or any other time someone would let me get on with them!
My first real horse's name was Splash. She was a loud paint mare, half welsh, I think and half quarter horse. Splash was actually purchased for my oldest brother but it wasn't long before he outgrew her. She made her way down through my second brother and then my sister, before finally becoming my horse. We were the same age, I recall. It was about the time she became my horse, that I needed a babysitter and a friend. I think I was seven. I very well remember luring her into the barn with feed and standing on the mangers to saddle her. She was not the most cooperative horse in the world. Splash had seen plenty in her years and while she wouldn't hurt you on purpose, (or very badly anyway) being saddled and ridden by a little kid wasn't really on her "to do" list for the day. I got pretty frustrated but always kept on trying. Some might say I was just more stubborn than she was. I'd probably go along with that.....so would most anyone who knows me very well. But despite the fact that Splash really didn't care much about having me ride her, sometimes I just brushed her or sat and petted her. And talked to her. And she listened as only a horse can. She heard my thoughts and felt my emotions. I needed that at that time.
There have been many, many horses throughout my life. They have been with me through my teenage years and through college. When life was "unstable", horses gave me stability. In college, when I was on the rodeo team, I think one of the things that gave me the most enjoyment, wasn't so much the fact that I was in rodeo, it was that I had a friend from home, right there waiting for me every day. Someone stable who listened and helped to keep me grounded. That has carried on throughout my adult life too. Horses have always been that defining factor for me. I have learned more than I can tell you from horses. Not just about what horses do, but about life.....about sticking with things, about responsibility, about loyalty.
So I have always loved horses. Much of the time, I'm pretty sure I understand horses a lot better than I do people. And even though a horse might not do exactly what I want when I want, that gives me another opportunity to learn something. To think about a new way to show a horse a particular thing. And I think that can carry over to us as humans too.
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Switched At Birth
Yesterday was a busy day in the heifer lot. Those little gals were gettin' busy havin' babies. An interesting thing happened. There were two heifers, about 40 yards apart in the exact same stages of labor. Started at the same time and everything. One heifer (number 39) was in the corner, the other (number 40) was up on a little knoll. Thirty nine laid down and pushed her calf out a little quicker than 40 did, but outside of that, it was like watching everything in tandem.
Now when 39 finished pushing out her little bull calf, two other heifers (already mamas themselves) came over to show her how to take care of Junior. The bad thing about this was when Junior finally got up, he didn't really know which cow was his mama. He kind of latched on to one and he wasn't right. This cow was gently but firmly nudging him away from her udder and he would walk all the way around this cow and wind up back where he started. All the while, 39 is mooing and following him around, but unsure how to get Junior to follow and nurse her.
I watched this go on for a while (until 40 had pushed out her calf and he was standing) when I decided I had better help things along. In general, it is not a good idea to walk right into three mama cows huddled over a newborn. Someone (usually me) is bound to either get run over or hurt. I got on the 4 wheeler and proceeded to very gently push the other cows away from 39 so she and her calf could get things straightened out. The cows moved away just fine, but for some reason 39 followed and so did Junior. And they all went right into where 40 was just getting things situated with her little bull calf up on the knoll.
The other cows kept going and then it was a jumble between 39 and 40 and their two little newborn bull calves. They were both mooing and licking their calf and then turning around and mooing and licking the other one's calf, too. It looked for a minute or two like they were both going to claim the same calf and I was going to have to intervene again. But then each one kind of latched on to a calf. But neither had the one they had given birth to. And gradually, they started moving apart with the "new" calf. Now for me, it does not matter one bit WHO takes care of a calf, just as long as he has a mama and she feeds him and looks him up to care for him. So as long as each cow is content, so am I.
It's just one of those kind of interesting things you don't see everyday.
Now when 39 finished pushing out her little bull calf, two other heifers (already mamas themselves) came over to show her how to take care of Junior. The bad thing about this was when Junior finally got up, he didn't really know which cow was his mama. He kind of latched on to one and he wasn't right. This cow was gently but firmly nudging him away from her udder and he would walk all the way around this cow and wind up back where he started. All the while, 39 is mooing and following him around, but unsure how to get Junior to follow and nurse her.
I watched this go on for a while (until 40 had pushed out her calf and he was standing) when I decided I had better help things along. In general, it is not a good idea to walk right into three mama cows huddled over a newborn. Someone (usually me) is bound to either get run over or hurt. I got on the 4 wheeler and proceeded to very gently push the other cows away from 39 so she and her calf could get things straightened out. The cows moved away just fine, but for some reason 39 followed and so did Junior. And they all went right into where 40 was just getting things situated with her little bull calf up on the knoll.
The other cows kept going and then it was a jumble between 39 and 40 and their two little newborn bull calves. They were both mooing and licking their calf and then turning around and mooing and licking the other one's calf, too. It looked for a minute or two like they were both going to claim the same calf and I was going to have to intervene again. But then each one kind of latched on to a calf. But neither had the one they had given birth to. And gradually, they started moving apart with the "new" calf. Now for me, it does not matter one bit WHO takes care of a calf, just as long as he has a mama and she feeds him and looks him up to care for him. So as long as each cow is content, so am I.
It's just one of those kind of interesting things you don't see everyday.
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